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One thing they do is position themselves around women they are talking to in a way that completely blocks any other man who may want to try an approach.
If a man does penetrate through their defenses, they immediately re-group to eject him, either by distracting him (with the same energy they use on the girls), or getting the bouncer of the group to deliver a not-so-subtle admonishment of “these girls are with us.” It’s extremely effective since it doesn’t rely on the kindness of women to be cold to interloping men.
Many of them dance surprisingly well, practicing for years as teenagers to Turkish music until making the switch to more mainstream house and hip hop.
I have seen good looking Turkish men wing their brothers with horrendous women—all night long.
I’ll talk to the ugly girl for 10 minutes or so to help my buddy out while a Turkish man stays with the grenade for the and with such an energy that it appears he really does like her, even though it is a physical impossibility due to her monstrous appearance.
This can be painful to watch, and even worse is that you know the girl will be much less receptive if you approach her afterwards because the Turk put her in a more sour mood.
Their goal isn’t necessarily for all men of the group to get laid—it’s just for one member to score.
There were a lot of negatives in my recent trip to Turkey, but a positive was being able to witness how Turkish men work in groups to get laid.
For men who are not allowed to pick up their local women due to cultural and social barriers, I was duly impressed with their wingmanship and coordination.
Turkish men take bros before hoes to a level I haven’t seen, and as long as one girl in a group is pretty, all the men will give it their all on each of her friends.
It gets to the point where if the hottest girl wants to leave, the ugly ones will convince her to stay because they are being pursued so vigorously by men who are much more handsome than they are pretty.
They may lie to women about wanting to take trips with them, among other beta declarations, but it is just to build comfort after attraction is established.