Try teasing your partner like you’re also a music streaming service who refuses to give in to Taylor Swift's demands.Lauren suggests “setting the stage” with a quick call or flirty text that will make your partner really look forward to talking with you.

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Treating phone sex as sexy little appetizing pieces can help take some of the pressure off.

It’s perfectly acceptable to tell your partner these are your fantasies for phone sex only, and not fantasies for reality.

It’s hard to believe that through all the technological breakthroughs, long-distance sex is still pretty much the same as it was in 1876 when Alexander Graham Bell invented the telephone so women could describe their ankles to guys over the phone. But phone sex can really feel like that if you don’t know what you’re doing.

Luckily, Lauren Rules, a professional phone sex operator with over 15 years of experience, is here to give her top 14 tips on how to have the best, most non-awkward phone sex of your life.

Be sure you trust your partner and that he/she won’t weaponize them against you later.

Lauren says if you can’t answer quickly and strongly YES to the question, “do I trust my partner? Safe, sane, and consensual is the motto to keep in mind.Read on for general advice — and most importantly — straight-up lines of dialogue you can steal and put in your back pocket.You know how Spotify free is like, SO GOOD until you hit an ad and inevitably hand over your credit card number for premium?Phone sex is a great platform for testing the waters for your secret fantasies.Say something like, “I confess I’ve always wanted you to go down on me while I rant about that totally passive aggressive thing my roommate did” or “I confess that I fantasize about understanding what a vaginal orgasm feels like.” Finding out your partner’s “confessions” are, can be great fodder for future phone sex fantasies.Just IMAGINE the sparks that would fly as soon as they walked through that door.